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In English, we should banish our desires for whatever does not belong to us. Never having enough popularity is regarded as a symptom of the love of popularity. Envy should be banished from the human heart.
What does it mean to covet?
It means to desire wrongfully, inordinately, or without due regard for the rights of others: to covet another’s property, or placement in the Community. To wish for, especially eagerly: she won or was granted the spot or attention they all wanted.
What would possess a grown woman, in this day and age to create multiple online identities just so they could harass a beautiful soul, sister and friend that has been riddled with 4 different types of cancer?
I’ve often wondered this. It is mostly women that I’ve noticed doing this, not known of many men who would take great lengths to do the same, but, I’m pretty sure they are out there.
I’m not always on social media a lot any more. When I am, I am mostly just re-tweeting things I enjoy, or things others might enjoy and things for friends. I mostly go online to chat with my long distant friends and catch up. Recently, as in over the past few months, I caught up with a few of my friends who have been experiencing some gawd-awful harassment and horrible, despicable posts on Twitter and Instagram aimed directly at them but crafted cryptically. Two grown, female adults behaving like school children by posting things and enticing others to join in on their fun.
Tell me dear reader, what do these trolls gain by posting things that will be harmful to someone, especially while hiding your true selves behind several aliases?
I’ll never understand the multiple alias thing. Personally, I have one Twitter account, one Facebook account and one Instagram account. Now email, that’s different, I have two, one for personal use and one for professional job search, education and skills upgrading. That’s it. I like things clean and simple. But these awful, hurtful trolls are out there, hiding in disguise. Yes, hiding. If you stand by your convictions, beliefs and insinuations, why not put it out there on your main account, you know, the real one, with a real legal name, birthplace, birth date and home town. What are you hiding for?
Not only do they have multiple accounts, they talk to each account from their other accounts as if they were two or three people actually communicating with each other to make it look real. A new way to talk to yourself, I guess. Last time I heard talking to yourself is a huge sign of a major problem when you are answering yourself as well.. Especially in public.
If what you say is the gospel truth then stand up and back up your statements with proof, actual proof. Lift your mask, show your face, your real face, not a picture you took from a google search.
I’ll tell you why, you’re mean, you’re spiteful, and you are jealous. You, my dears are attention seeking psychopaths. Standing under several different neon signs, flashing see me! want me! love me! I’m the one you want, hot her! I’m better than her! I’ll bet you’ve kicked off your twitter shoes, pulled off your earrings and said to said fake friend “hold these bitch, this will be over real quick.” Well, guess what? We can see the sweat dripping from your worried brow, and here you smashing your dishes and things while screaming at the top of your lungs in a fit of rage, sometimes posting your fits on video for the world to see just what a fool you really are. The grown-ups aren’t here for that. Your dark soul is leaking through your fake skin suite and you’ve lost anything good that you used to possess. You’ve peeled off your human skin suite and your demon bones are showing. Remember, what you spill out into the universe comes back to you ten-fold. Karma watches and sees all of it. Then sits back, waits for every little demon seed you plant and expunges them all. We’ve kind of expunged your distasteful comments from our minds and we are at peace in our lives.
I have blocked many accounts for this nonesense and don’t see their posts unless someone contacts me via DM and shows them to me. I have no time for bullies, fakes or psychopaths.
Unwanted, aggressive behavior is always repeated over time, even if it’s from different aliases, the style of your writing is always the same and that’s your tell, you really have a bad poker face. You try to throw your weight around because you think you have the right to do so. You don’t!
There is much more sensitivity to this issue. Harassment is just as bad as bullying, so don’t think you’re safe in your little nasty harassment slinging bubble. There is a growing awareness of online harassment and bullying. It won’t be tolerated any longer. More and more people are speaking up and sharing their experiences and calling our their harassers and bullies online. Once exposed, they have no where to hide. They may try and create new online identities but you can’t hide what you really are for very long. One-by-one accounts are linked back to their origins and are shut down. Yes, it takes time and you need the proof to supply to the Administrators to back up your claim.
One thing that really ruffles my feathers is a hobgoblin who takes a tremendous amount of time picking on someone who suffers fatalistic illnesses, such as cancer. These ogres must be some of the most discontented personage out there. They aren’t flying high unless they’ve groomed a group of like-minded ogres to start spewing verbal insinuation directed at one individual and have them agree with every poisoned word spit.
How judgmental these types are. Have any of you attended said victim’s doctor’s appointments, sat through their treatments? watched them crumble to the ground weighing sometimes all of ninety-seven pounds soaking wet.? Have you watched them have their skulls cut into? Witnessed the radiation poison being shot into their brains? Have you witnessed all their hair fall out? Seen their skull caved in and burnt by radiation? HAVE YOU?!
Have you had someone tell you that your brain is dying and your time left on this mortal coil will not promise you another five or ten years, if you are lucky? How much of you actually know what radiation burns are?
You don’t post things like they are faking their illnesses or hurry and die already or bring their family members into to or even their pets. This just makes you petty and further proves you are out to cause devastation.
Have you witnessed someone who’s had to deal with neuropathy, a problem with the functionality of the peripheral nerves responsible for the transmission of signals from the central nervous system to the rest of the body and from the body back to the brain. There is numbness and tingling because the nerves that carry messages of sensation — touch, pain, temperature, are not performing optimally. Numbness usually occurring in the lower half of the body. Do you know what it’s like to suddenly collapse and lose all feeling in your legs and be unable to walk? Or, to pee all over yourself because you have no sensation and you’ve lost control of your bladder or worse yet, loose control of your bowels?
Do you know what happens when your brain swells from surgery, steroids and chemo? How about suffering with Gastropareses? Do you even know what that is? Let me enlighten you; it’s a disease of the muscle of the stomach or the nerves controlling those muscles. The stomach can no longer grind the food you eat and blockages start to happen causing painful cramping, swollen intestines and sometimes diverticulosis. You poop blood, sometimes so much you require a blood transfusion.
How about Radiation Necrosis, healthy tissue dies inside your body. And, what if you needed a major surgery but couldn’t have it because you can no longer be put under anesthetic because your heart could stop?
Do you know what it’s like to slowly lose the use of your hands because an autoimmune, rheumatic and chronic disease called scleroderma is hardening your connective tissue and disabling the collagen of the skin? Have you lived on a specially formulated liquid diet for the past six months? Missing all the foods you used to love is a torture within itself.
Have you tried to function with Lewy body dementia? Pretty sure you couldn’t even say that one three times fast. So, I will educate you once more; this is a disease where abnormal deposits of a protein called — Wait, you need a grown-up, who can read for this one, I’ll give you two extra minutes to find one……….. ready?, let’s begin…. alpha-synuclein in the brain; these bodies affect chemicals in the brain which can affect thinking, movement, behavior and mood.
Well, big breath in aaaaaaaaand exhale.
There’s much more I could tap on, but why should I? I’ve given you enough for a human to suffer with along with constant trips to the hospital to meet with different specialists, having a medical file as thick as the biggest book ever written. Enough small talk.
It all comes down to this: You aren’t living their lives, you don’t pay their bills, and you certainly are no friend to them.
LEAVE THEM ALONE!!!!!!!
Go about your own business, get a new hobby. There’s no eye-contact, our backs are turned, can’t be any clearer here.
STOP BEING SUCH AN ANGRY PERSON. THIS CAN’T BE ANY MORE CLEAR OR CONCISE.
IT’S OBVIOUS THEY DON’T WANT YOU IN THEIR LIFE ANYMORE, NEITHER DO WE. YOU KNOW EXACTLY WHO YOU ARE, WHERE AND HOW YOU WENT WRONG, THERE’S NO FIXING IT. THERE’S NO GOING BACK.
SHUT THE DOOR.
THE DOOR IS CLOSED TO YOU HERE.
HAND TO THE SKY.
AND AS FOR MY NONE BLOOD RELATED SISTER, OCCASIONALLY DRESSING HERSELF UP AND PUTTING ON A LITTLE MAKE-UP SO SHE CAN FEEL GOOD FOR FIVE MINUTES. IT’S NON OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS!!!!!!
“WHEN A GIRL FEELS HER WORST, THAT’S WHEN SHE NEEDS TO LOOK HER BEST” IT’S THERAPEUTIC.
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